103. Your Vision Is Your Power: How to Commit to Your Most Epic Life

This one is FULL of power and potency and I am bringing it to you because I truly believe that vision is the one thing - the non-negotiable - when it comes to living your most epic life.

I'm talking about why so many people never fully commit to their vision, why they do what I call the "hokey-cokey" - half in, half out - and exactly what it takes to hold your vision with clarity, fire and unshakeable energy.

What We Get Into

• Why your vision is your guiding star and how it changes everything
• The different ways people find their vision - yes, even spreadsheets count!
• How to create your vision with zero concept of time and collapse it into your here and now
• The two energetic responses to commitment - massive expansion or huge contraction - and how to navigate both
• Why being pulled towards your vision is so much more powerful than running away from what you don't want
• Real examples of visions across health, impact and purpose
• My own personal vision and what living it actually looks like

The Big Takeaway Your vision has to be visceral. You have to feel it in your bones, sense it in your cells. Once you've got it, the work is learning how to hold it, own it and let it pull you forward every single day.

Ready to Go Deeper? If you want to collapse time and bring your vision into the here and now at speed, get in touch. I am here for you!

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Transcript

Commitment Triggers Expansion Or Fear

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As soon as people commit, there's two choices: massive energetic expansion. Hell yes, here I am. Bring it on. I'm so here for it. Or a huge contraction. Well, I've said it now, and now the fear's coming in, and now I don't know what's gonna happen. And maybe I wasn't ready, and maybe I committed too soon, and maybe it wasn't even my thing. And the doubt and the fear and the procrastination and the self-sabotage.

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So let's just call that out. Let's just own that.

Why Vision Guides An Epic Life

Holding Vision Through Self-Sabotage

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I am bringing this one to your ears, full of power, full of potency, and full of information for you to consider if this is something that you are absolutely here for, or it's something that you are self-sabotaging, you're blocking, you're dancing around commitment with it. So let's dive in. Today is all about the one thing that I believe is essential when you want to live your most epic life. The one thing that is going to be your guiding star, it's going to be the way that you navigate things. And it's simply your vision. If you want to live your most epic life, you have to have some sort of idea of what your most epic life would be like. You have to have a vision, you have to have a commitment, and you have to have incredible clarity to be able to do the things that you need to do to get there, to be the person that lives out that vision, and to understand what is pulling you back from it, what is allowing you to be in it, and everything in between. So let's talk about the vision. In transformational coaching, in standard coaching, vision is something that we talk with clients at right at the beginning. What's your vision for the work that we're doing together? What's your vision for your life? I'm going much deeper. I'm inviting you to think of what's the vision for your most epic life where you are abundant, there's happiness, there's joy, there's connection, there's purpose, there's wonder, love, and everything in between. What's that vision? Do you have a grasp on what you are doing? Or is it easier for you to feel your way there? The way I work with energy and the way I work with clients is we've got to tap into that vision that you feel. You feel it within your bones, you sense it within your cells. This is it, this is what I'm here to do. Some people will find their vision through locking in on their purpose, some people will find their vision purely through meditation. It will be shown to them from a higher source. Some people will find their vision because they will find what they don't want in order to find what they do want. Some people will be highly intellectually driven and have like spreadsheets and everything really clear of what that vision is and how they're gonna get there and by when. There is no right or wrong, but the way I navigate this is create your vision with no concept of time, understand who you need to be, who you need to become to be in that vision, understand what you've got to do to bring that vision to life, and then maximize out on your energetics to be able to collapse time to bring that vision into the here and now. So it sounds easy, doesn't it? It sounds easy. It's like, yep, okay, I've got it. This is what I want to do, this is how I'm gonna do it. But let's break down why people don't. Why loads and loads and loads of people will never commit to a vision. Or they will be half in, I call it the hokey kokie. They'll be half in, half out, nearly committing, but really not. And being in that space of well, if it wasn't, if it wasn't meant to be, it wasn't meant to be. Rather than this is what I'm here to do, this is what my life force drives me to do. This is why I'm on this planet, this is why I do these things. That's your vision. That's your knowing. It's got to be visceral. You've got to feel it in yourselves.

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Now, fear comes in.

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So you can feel your vision, you're like, This is it, I've got it, I've got it, this is it. Oh my goodness, I am mega scared, but this is it. I am gonna commit to this, this is it.

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I am going to be doing this, saying this, being this, living here, whatever it might be.

Being Pulled By What You Want

Health Vision That Actually Sticks

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Then as soon as people commit, there's two choices massive energetic expansion. Hell yes, here I am, bring it on. I'm so here for it. Or a huge contraction. Well, I've said it now, and now the fear's coming in, and now I don't know what's gonna happen, and maybe I wasn't ready, and maybe I committed too soon, and maybe it wasn't even my thing, and the doubt and the fear and the procrastination and the self-sabotage. So let's just call that out, let's just own that. Bring your vision in, let it excite you, and let's talk about how you hold it. Because that's what you're here to do, that's why you've got it. Everybody has an internal network of systems that drive them. An internal network of processes, of patterns, of habits that get them to do stuff. Now you can drive and use those patterns from what you're running away from, what you don't want to be, that can drive you. But the most magnetic, energetically clean way of driving is being pulled, pulled towards what you're here for, pulled towards your greatest vision, pulled towards a higher version of yourself on a higher timeline. And this is what it's all about. This is what it's all about, and it's why I'm so passionate about all of these things. It's why I do what I do. So I'll share my vision so you can see where you sit in yours. I'll give you permission to create the biggest vision ever. So mine is to guide humans to live their most epic life by plugging into their own power source, activating limitlessness, and transforming their identity so they can be who they came here to be. I have a massive vision of every single person activating themselves to be limitless and being who they came here to be, and thinking, oh my god, this life just goes better and better. I am on fire. I love it. This is what I was born to do. All of those pieces are incredibly powerful for me. So I invite you to think, okay, your vision, let's create some examples of people that I've worked with, some examples of I can carry through some visions for you, and you can see whether that's for you for not. Um, would you like a vision like that or not? So let's talk about health first. Health is a big, big pillar in the energy of success. It's a big part of my background. If you haven't got your health, you can't do any of these other things. So there's a vision to be your most healthiest self. When you are your most healthiest self, what does that look like? Does it mean that you are regularly attending the gym? Does it mean that you are watching what you eat? Does it mean that you are monitoring your scroll time on your phone? Does it mean that you are having way more fun and happiness and joy? Does it mean that you are not beating yourself up about falling off the wagon about something that you may have eaten? What is that version of you, that healthiest self? What is the vision? What is that vision showing you about becoming your most healthiest self? What are you doing that you can't do now? How are you feeling that you don't feel now? Why is it important? Why does it even matter? Your vision needs to have all of these elements in it.

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Why does it actually matter to you? Let's take an example of impact.

Clarity Check And Next Steps

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Most of the people that listen to my podcast, most of the people in my world, they're hugely impact-driven. So for you to have the vision of incredible impact, what does that look like? Are you somebody who has a business and you're creating a movement and you're bringing people on that journey with you? You're creating this space and saying, come on this ride with me. Is that what you're doing? Are you somebody that creates a movement and that's what you want to do? You want to create a group of people that come with you. Or are you somebody that wants to affect individuals so that they can create their own movement? They can do what they want with their life, they can have a huge ripple effect from what it is that they're doing. Are you somebody that wants to impact your children, your family, your parents, your siblings? Are you somebody that wants to impact people close to you? That's the biggest driver for you. I'm doing this because of these people. Hold that in your vision. It's really important. Hold that close to your heart and hold that within your vision. It is essential. When you know that in a way that feels really alive, you can absolutely hold yourself accountable to anything in this world because we are limitless. And when we can create this vision of expansion and joy and happiness and health and well-being and wealthiness, whatever it is, we place ourselves in it. We place ourselves in that vision. We're in it, we live it, we breathe it. This is who I am, this is what I do, this is how I show up, this is who I become, and then boom, you are it. You are fire. You are absolutely in that space of this is it. I'm living it. Now I'm gonna expand my vision. Now I'm gonna do the next phase. Now I'm gonna really take it up a notch. I'm here for the people who have a vision. For whatever reason, they're procrastinating, they are overthinking, they are hesitating, they're not jumping in it. I'm here for those people. I am also here for the people who have a massive vision, nobody else can see it, they've got it. They want to have more belief, they want to absolutely close the energy loops that are stopping them holding that vision. I'm here for the people who have massive success. Their vision is something completely different. They've already got the success in the vision in the business, but now they're seeing something different, and people aren't getting it, and they're feeling frustrated. I'm here for them. You can see how vision plays such a part in your life. There's judgment from people, there's rejection, there's visibility, there's expansion, and there's everything in between. Your vision is key. I invite you to think about yours and ask yourself have you got it clear? And if you have, are you being pulled towards it or are you contracting away from it? If you want to know how to be pulled towards it, collapse time so that vision comes into the here and now at speed, then get in touch. Enjoy. I would love to know your thoughts on this episode.